Living in alignment, core values, and being a caregiver

Episode 27  

As caregiver for my son, who is 26 years old, I have had quite a journey.  There have been times, when I felt completely lost and down, out of sync with who I am.  Not even knowing what my core values are anymore, aside from the tough task of survival mode. 

Part of self actualization, and striving towards a joyful life and soul purpose, is really taking stock of what your CORE VALUES are, and how your life is in alignment.  It's the "taking a look" inward, that happens, and realizing that if you focus on becoming more aware what feels right, and what doesn't . 

I talk about how I have not always been aware that things I was doing were not in alignment with who I was.  As I have made changes, expansion in so many positive ways has happened or still is just beginning to happen.   

I remain dedicated to caring for my son, of course.  I talk about how he and I may be two separate lives, but I am LIVING FOR THE BOTH OF US.   And, it makes so much sense for me to be living to my deepest souls purpose and core values, because I am a better Mom and caregiver to Daniel when I am deeply happy and fulfilled. 

It may not be possible to do all of the things you desire, but you can take inventory and try to do less of what doesn't suit you, and more of what does.   

I hope you enjoy the recording.  It is my raw and heartfelt feelings after almost 26 years of being a caregiver for my beautiful son, and Mom to all of my beautiful kids.  

I am very grateful for any ears that are listening.